Wow! Another year has come and gone. If you’re like most people at the start of a New Year, you ‘re probably making a list and checking it twice, not to find out who’s naughty or nice, but to bring the New Year in with a ginormous BANG!
You want you’re life to be better. You want to move forward with bigger and bolder strides. You want to shine up there amongst the stars.
So with your new list in tow, you’re ready to conquer the world! A new year, a new chapter of your life is the perfect catalyst for your dreams, hopes, goals and aspirations to magnificently unfold.
As much as you look forward to what is ahead, you also reminisce on what you’re leaving behind. The old year that slowly fades in to the background of your mind, destined to the confines of your memory bank.
But as you look back on the high and lows, the joys and the sorrows, you purposefully take stock and stomp out anything that does not honour or value who you are.
If it doesn’t support, abort and if it doesn’t appreciate, evacuate, is the mantra that plays as a reminder of your self-worth.
You realize it’s time to let go of some of the things that don’t belong in your phenomenal, spanking New Year!
I did the same and so in this blog I share my list of 6 Things To Leave Behind in 2014!
Regrets are the heavy weights that keep you enslaved to the past. They are the wudda, cudda shudda’s that obscure your vision and prevent you from seeing the joy in the present moment.
Regrets are what you hold on to when you fail to learn the lesson of your experience. You refuse to move on and so your regrets prevent you from growing in to a better person.
Forget what has happened in the past, you can’t change it now! What you can change is your response to what is happening today so that you won’t have regrets tomorrow!
Leave your regrets behind in 2014 and start making memories that will make you smile for a lifetime! 🙂
- Anger and Resentment
Anger and resentment are some heavy, burdensome emotions! They are akin to walking around with a ton of bricks strapped to your back, or an invasive cancer violating your body.
Your existence is lonely and dark when you allow anger to pervade your world. You hold onto it so tightly it blocks good things from flowing to and from you, sabotaging your healthy state of being.
Anger and resentment cause resistance and as long they are present, your swim up stream will be self-defeating, tiresome and endless.
The greatest antidote for anger and resentment is LOVE. When you operate from a place of love, anger and resentment simply fade away. Smiles, sunshine and sparkles are in harmony with your Spirit. 🙂
Let go of the anger from 2014 and make room for calm and peaceful pleasures!
- Negative Thinking
There is an Infinite Power that is around and within you. A creative intelligence that acts on your thoughts much like gravitational force acts on physical objects. Although unseen, it is the sub total of everything that exists and permeates all existence as pure energy.
Pure energy vibrates at different frequencies which makes up your physical and mental world. Your thoughts are nothing more than pure energy vibrating at a phenomenal speed.
According to the Basic Law of the Universe, ‘Like attract Like’ and responds to your dominant, habitual, thoughts and beliefs. This in turn creates the various conditions that play out as your life.
Here is scientific proof of how your thoughts and intentions affect your physical world.
When your mind is plagued with negative thoughts, you attract the corresponding energy. You quite literally, create the negative events, situations and circumstances in your life. Your negative thinking brings negativity in all its forms.
Kick 2014’s negative thinking to the curb and leave it at the side of the road so you can step in to a fabulous New Year!!
- Drama Drama Makes Bad Karma!
Have you ever noticed some people seem to be a magnet to drama and chaos? They thrive on it! Their lives are pretty mundane without the thrilling roller-coaster ride of drama. But here’s the kicker. Drama is part of a complex network that requires some super high maintenance. It needs YOU to keep it going!
It shows up in your relationship drama, friendship drama, family drama, baby mama drama, broke it’s no joke drama and just about any other drama that relies on your involvement to keep the network alive!
Drama is bad Karma because it leaves you flat out exhausted and totally in the wrong space to receive the good things you deserve.
Put yourself on the receiving end of goodness by ditching the drama from 2014.
- People Who Bring You Down
People who bring you down are riddled with pain, jealously, bitterness, anger, resentment, hostility and God knows whatever emotions they carry around to sustain their world of negativity.
Sorry, why would you want to embroil your energy with theirs? ??
Don’t surround yourself with people who want to bring you down. Keep close to those who want to push you so high, they aren’t happy until you are up there amongst the stars!
Surround yourself with people who love and accept who you are.
People who honour your values and appreciate your worth. They respect you because they understand where you have come from, are thankful for where you are and support where you are going.
Align yourself with those who are happy when you succeed and are there for your when you fail. People who accept you unconditionally and walk with you side by side.
~ Those who bring you down should stay in 2014
Time to say goodbye to negative, burdensome and mean
2015 is a brand new day
For healthy relationships, to flow your way! 🙂
- An Unforgiving Heart
When you forgive, you in no way change the past – but you sure do change the future. ~Bernard Meltzer
An unforgiving heart is a heavy heart but the only person it weighs down is you!
You hold onto the memories of your transgressor which keeps you locked in a prison of hurt and pain. You become the victim of your own mind-imposed torture and you relive you hell over and over.
Start to Forgive!
Forgiving does not change the suffering experienced in the past or in anyway negates or minimizes it. It does not mean you condone the wrong doings of someone’s action towards you.
Forgiveness has little to do with what the other person deserves and much about what you deserve to give yourself.
Forgiveness is a declaration that you love yourself enough to let it go and move on with your life. You refuse to let anyone rent a space in your mind. You make a conscious choice to live from a place of love and not from a place of darkness.
Forgiveness is an evolution of the heart and quite literally elevates your vibration to match the higher states of consciousness.
Forgive those that hurt you in 2014 and welcome 2015 with a heart as light as a feather!
Now that you know what to leave behind in 2014, your journey in to 2015 will be much less clouded!
You should easily see your way in to good health and relationships that support and nurture you. You will also see the love that surrounds you because like a magnet at the centre of your being, it will now flow freely to you.
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