Spirituality and Relationships

Spirituality and Relationships


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There is tons of information about Spirituality that you can find on this website. What may be surprising to you is that there is no definitive expression of Spirituality because the definition varies from person to person.

On this page and the next few segments to follow, Sharing Self-Improvement looks at Spirituality in the various aspects of your daily life.

To continue we will discuss Spirituality as it pertains to relationships. The aim is to provide you with a practical and pragmatic guide to healthy and loving relationships.

As you read on we hope that you will gain insight and acquire the tools to live life to the max! To live every day with a sense of purpose and operate from place of peace and happiness so that you can make the most of the relationships that are significant and special in your life.

Spirit is an invisible force made visible in all life’

-Maya Angelou

With the above quote in mind, let us look at how Spirit can be made visible in your relationships.

When you embark on a journey of Spirituality you are seeking much more than external gratification. Even when you have some degree of physical, material, emotional or sexual satisfaction in your life, it is often over-shadowed by a sense of emptiness and a compelling need to fill that space with something more meaningful.

What you are searching for is a connection with your True Self, your Higher Self, the Infinite Self that is beyond your external expression.

It is the part of you that is not seen or heard but dwells unobserved, in the deepest part of your being within the crevices of your Soul. It is the part of you that is connected to the Life-force in the great Circle of Life to which we all belong.

When you tap into this resource, the reservoir of your Spirit, you can truly begin to enrich your life with good relationships.

Soulmate Experience is a wonderful book written by friends of mine Mali and Joe that supports the intimate and loving relationship of self. If you are searching  for your Soulmate or want to experience a Soulmate relationship with your current partner, this book is for you.

Get it on Amazon

The Soulmate Experience: A Practical Guide to Creating Extraordinary Relationships

Good Relationships

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Good relationships begin with YOU! They begin as you cultivate a relationship with Spirit. When you create an inner sanctuary for your Spirt to flow and to flourish. When you clean out the emotional cobwebs and psychological pain that has been a magnet for detached, dysfunctional and unhealthy relationships in the past.

It is crucial you understand this concept:

In developing and nurturing a relationship with yourself at a deep level, you perfectly position yourself to receive beautiful things in your life. This includes the intimate and romantic relationships you share or long to share with a significant other.

What do Beautiful and Special Relationships look like?

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It is pretty easy to recognise relationships that are good for you and that are conducive to the free flowing nature of your Spirit. These relationships are:

  • Happy and Healthy
  • Committed and Lasting
  • Loving and Affectionate
  • Kind and Compassionate
  • Warm and Gentle
  • Open and Free
  • Loyal and Trusting
  • Caring and Sincere
  • Engaging, Understanding and Communicative
  • Sincere and Supportive
  • Honest and Honourable
  • Fun and Full of Laughter
  • Emotionally available and Willing to go the distance!

The list is by no means exhaustive but you should easily be able to check 80% and decide whether the relationship you’re in is good for you. If you are not in a relationship, then no less than 80% of the above qualities should be present as you embark upon your Soulmate-seeking journey.

How do I find Him/Her?

‘When I look in the mirror what do I see, someone charming and beautiful looking at me?’

If not, then I must turn away, for the mirror of life has crumbled with decay!’.

Michelle H A Williams

Life is a mirror that reflects the condition of your Spirit.What do you see when you look in the mirror of your own life?

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Is it bursting with beautiful colours, contours and dimensions? Or is it crumbling with decay, neglect and turmoil?

Whatever is in your Heart or your Spirit emanates into your life. That which emanates into your life becomes your life. So how do you find him/her?

‘You begin within and reflect it all out’.

Michelle H A Williams

Take a look at another great read that can help you choose the right partner.

The Power of Personality Types in Love and Relationships: Build a Great Relationship with the Right Partner and Stop Wasting Time on the Wrong one

The author Bill Farr takes a candid look at how natural forces play a role when it comes to choosing a partner who compliments your personality. Click the image or highlighted text to get it on Amazon, you’ll be glad you did. 🙂

Your Spirit is Divine and Gracious

When you harness the quality of Spirit you can’t but help radiate an alluring Light. A Spiritual Light which is:

  • Happy and Healthy
  • Committed and Lasting
  • Loving and Affectionate
  • Kind and Compassionate
  • Warm and Gentle
  • Open and Free
  • Loyal and Trusting
  • Caring and Sincere
  • Engaging, Understanding and Communicative
  • Sincere and Supportive
  • Honest and Honourable
  • Fun and Full of Laughter
  • Emotionally available and Willing to go the distance

I hope you see! The qualities you develop within and display outwardly will attract the relationship you desire.

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Embodying Spirit is the most precious gift you can give to yourself.

Lovingly attending to your Spirit perfectly positions you to receive beautiful things in your life. Beautiful and special relationships will come your way. Your portals are open to the abundant flow of goodness that will fill your life. You are in concert with the all-powerful, all-loving, all-giving Life-force. So in giving you receive.

In Caring you are endowed with Compassionate.

In a Spirit of Warmth you attract Love.

As you open to Spirit you are filled with Joy.

Laughter will lift your burdens away.

Your Giving Spirit will find Kindness in moments of need.

Your Sincerity will ignite your Inner Glow.

Faith in who who you are and what believe, will keep you anchored to your inner Strength.

And choosing to live Holistically  will place you firmly on the path to Wellness.

In developing your inner qualities you will be able to make balanced choices that will always serve you well.

As you fine-tuning your Spiritual antenna, you will seek the knowledge and guidance you need from within to help you in the development of your relationship. You will intuitively know what to do.

You will understand that your relationship is nothing more than a platform for further developing and refining your inner qualities.

His short-comings? An opportunity to bring forth the corresponding quality within you of love, patience and kindness.

Her issues? The chance for you to submerge into the reservoir of your Spirit and exhibit compassion and understanding.

Is it too easy to walk away and say no way to your relationship! But as you do so, you walk away from yourself. And be careful what your walk into! Relationships can provide great soul-seeking opportunities if you can allow yourself to stop and listen, be open and willing.

Being Open to Spirit

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How does this present in your relationship?

As you celebrate you, others will too!

You will not be afraid to love and be loved. You will allow yourself to be naked and vulnerable with your loved one because you know Spirit will catch you if you fall.

Allowing yourself be free, open, naked and vulnerable is the pan-ultimate expression of Love. Nothing gets in between. Everything is flowing from the depth of your heart in harmony with the depth of his/her heart.

Love is’ … nothing more and nothing less.

It is knowing that your life is better because he/she is in it. You feel complete.

It is two hearts entwined and free. Free as a bird to fly to the highest plateaus together or alone. Free also to return to the abode of loving arms.

Free to love, free to be loved.

Would it surprise you to know that technology can impact your electro-magnetic field and increase your sense of Spiritual connection? LifeFlow Meditation 2.0 is a brain entrainment system that according to scientist, is one of the most powerful tools for accelerating your personal growth.  A happier and more developed you will attract goodness in your life and that includes healthy relationships!

Incorporating this technology can enhance your sense of well-being, reduce stress, alter your emotional state and yes, help you experience a deeper Spiritual connection (plus a list of other benefits). Click the LifeFlow Meditation 2.0 link to find out more and how brainwave technology is used to create frequencies that impact and resonate the body at a cellular level. 

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